Kerja oh kerja!

Yuhuuu~!! i'm in Sibu~!

Dah brapa hari aku tok demam selesema...seksa gila...

Sik berhenti-henti beringus...paip bocor sampey idong ku besar kedak shrek arom bulaknya...

Encik suami pun outstation ke Kuching, so aku diam ngan adik-adik iparku di rumah. Bak kata Hubbie ku tek..."aku ngembak balit amah ngan tukang masak!". Haha! Yalah tek...sian ku nangga sidak ya terpaksa bertolong cuci tapak segala...aku tek beringus-ingus bah...susah nak bekerja. Bermasak pun mala jak tergendala sbb berkasik non-stop. Makan ubat demam + selesema diberik pharmacy yg nyuroh tido ya pun sik berkesan. Gik juak aku tido manok; mala jak terbangun sebab batok ngan bersin.

Tapi...apakah?? Marek En. Suami balit dari Kuching, lalu pagi tok tek alu bait selesema ku...yerrr... pandey melawak juak idong ku tok.

Anyway, mengekot title di atas... aku tok tek, disuroh kerja part-time jadi promoter perfume agik cam every year's holiday. Tapi...masalahnya...kerja ya will be on Christmas day; 25th & 26th. Sik menjadi masalah mun aku di Kuching...tapi kinek tok aku di Sibu...and sekda sign of Hubbie mok balit Kuching awal...well, baruk marek malam nya madah mok balit Kuching on 31st. Yalah aku KONPIUS!!! Hari ya madah sik balit sbb Zati mok berambeh sitok.

Zati oh Zati! Gimana donk~? Bila ktk register sebenarnya? Boleh dirondeng sik bila ktk mok pegi Sibu? Huhu...

Ok...back to the Kerja thing...rasa cam sik worth it jak mun aku terpaksa balit Kuching demi nak kerja ya jak. Sebab sik balit modal bah...balit dah brapa $$ burn...macam kerja for nothing. :(

i love this job, but sik menguntungkan, right? :(

What do you think? <--ah, nanyak pun sik guna cuz sekda orang baca blog tok.

MISSIONS - Completed!

Alhamdulillah...majlis dah selesai...

Even though there were unwanted problems showing up, but i managed not to scream off and ran away like a runaway bride. lol... just a bridezilla, ne?

Rasa nak leput ada juak...

Tapi guys...most of you might say, "Woseehhh!! Sanding sampey 3 kali! Kaya nak juak??".

Actually...the first one is just a simple Nikah ceremony, but ada pelamin. Most of the brides are doing that nowadays right? Having a small tepung tawar session so that the majlis won't look too 'empty'? Besides, my majlis sanding's date is like a month away. This is what will happen if you can't find a huge hall to fit everything. :/

So that was the answer to my problems;

Rumah - Nikah

• Can have a very traditional Malay style - suitable for my Nikah ceremony
• Can have very happy and kecoh environment; the laughter from the makcik-makcik, or the sound of the men 'kacau-ing' the nenek till melatah...can you imagine that? XD
• i can invite everyone who i want; my primary and high school mates, families from all over Sarawak who can't attend my November's reception - they are free to bring their anak, cucu cicit & friends.
• Suitable for nenek or datuk who can't really stand or walk well, where they can rest easily in the room or on the couch.

Hotel - Reception

• something can fit my family from different state who can't join in October but only in school holiday
• something that is can fit up small & limited quantity of people due to budget
• something that can let my non-muslim friends to sit and enjoy the wedding without having to move here and there just like the normal house-reception
• somewhere that is easy for people to go as my house is very far for some people.
• suitable to make some activities a.k.a. dancing, guestbook photobooth, 'easy view' to mingle around.

In-law's House - Bertandang

• Almost the same like my Nikah ceremony, but less my friends as it is dedicated to my husband's side.

Therefore, basically my 27th November is my FIRST bersanding, and on 28th is the BERTANDANG. Get it??

~~~~~

Sian juak ku nangga bridemaids & friends ku...huhu...

To Ann, Bg. Rizal, Ijam, Awang, Zati, Achie, Shafiq, Anastasia, Nabillah, & Huiying:

THANK YOU VERY MUCH!

Iboh jerak k?

To my sisters:

Makseh banyak-banyak! Kelak time kitak orang nikah, kelak aku balas balit...

But...most of the people after they helped went all: "Sik mok ku bersanding kelak. Aku nikah di majlis Islam jak..."

Aaaa...bagus kah sik bagus ya?

~~~~~

Now...kita bayar hutang!

[Nasha] Pelamin - settled.

[Lance] Photography - Today @8pm.

[Idaman Rahim] Makeup - settled. Need to go meet Rahim again because one of the earring is with me.

[Hollywood Bridal] Coat & Jewellery - settled.

[Wandy] Mini Instax 7s polaroid - Need to give it back. Ohh gosh! Need to get 1 too! XD

~~~~~

hmm...what else?

i lost my little notebook, so it's kinda hard to trace back what's important. ;_;

Tomorrow!

Hmm....esok & lusa is the Big Day!

Good News:

• Wandy is going to lent me his mini instax camera!
• Shafiq chia me my cake deco-for-sure-it's-not-fondant-or-pas-tillage at Hilton.
• The pelamin for Yabuki's reception already being installed.

Bad news:

• Don't think i have enough time to alter my dress. ;_;
• Ribbon for the wedding favours sik cukup.
• Slideshow belom polah as Lance baruk siap editing last night.
• 2 of my headdress also belum polah.
• Face veil belum siap.
• Jubah Yabuki pun no news from Teeyah
• Yabuki's head gear sik tauk apa cita.

What to do today:

• Beli ribbon
• Pasang pelamin at 12pm
• Wandy sending the mini instax 7s & film today
• Photobooth installation
• Pick up the 1st hand bouquet & pay
• Going for facial & hot stone massage at KANEBO
• Polah slideshow
• Hantar possible songs to play in the wedding

Panic!

Yea yea! Otakku semakin cramped.

Too many things that haven't been done.

Padan muka...sapa suroh mok jadi superman.

But then, if you think back, i've got no choice.

Some people if they don't want to spend more on money, they can rely on their siblings, or makcik-makcik. And on the opposite way, people malas want to be busy, they just can hire a wedding planner.

And i have...neither of those...

Berbekalkan keringat dan tulang empat kerat tok lah...berganding bahu bersama Zati sambil Pikah menolong skali...mek orang terpaksa berkerja keras. Huhuhu~~~

Tapi paling kesian ngan aku lah...

Table arrangement still belom siap.

Nasa sik contact2 aku...madah mok jumpa riya...tp pasya sekda bunyi gik. Gik busy nya kali...*be positive jak la*

Bapak ku pegi Penang...Mak ada kursus...Zati, Anas & Shafiq bekerja...

Pikah gago jaga pusak sakit...Dedek ada kursus astronomi.... HUWARRGHHH~!!! Stress ehhh!!!

Sabar Videl sabar...tarit napas...istirgfar banyak-banyak...

fuuuhhhh....

Giney tok owh...

Things that haven't been done/finished:

• Headpieces duak2 lom siap...
• Jubah Yabuki lom dipolah...
• Baju lom alter...
• Wedding favours lom abis bungkus and hias.
• Props photobooth lom siap
• Seating arrangement
• Table arrangement
• Performance arrangements
• Slideshow

But Alhamdulillah...deco for bunga telur dah siap. Arigatou Zati!!!

4 days before the big day (Persandingan)!

Astargfirullahalazim....

i can't sleep well! The things about the planning, what-to-dos, and nightmares jumbled up in my head! Argh! DX

Last week aku dah polah facial, but it seems like all of them appear again. Ne aku nak ngoleh duit pakey polah facial lagik tok...

Hmm...what to do today...

1. Jumpa Idaman Rahim
2. Pegi CINDY Matang Jaya - carik millinery netting, head band
3. Pegi Kenyalang - beli reben, stretchable lace, carik millinery netting, beli apa2 for face veil
4. Pegi India Street - cari selendang, headscarf lace, brooch, reben
5. Jumpa Nasa to finalise the pelamin design

Hmm...can't think of anything else... :/

i need someone to teman me because i feel nauseous. Stress...=_=

Budget? Hopefully can get everything under RM100.

Right now i'm making the face veil by using diamente and super glue. No idea how strong and how long the glue to hold the metal together. Ganbarimasu~! Aja!

Mission : Receptions preparation Pt. 3!

*headdesks*

Tenses piling up. LOL.

Yesterday we did a small post-wedding photoshoot based on the 1950's Vintage theme.

i don't know how it will turn out though...just wait for the photographer. :)

But i do hope that i can get some of the pics to be included in my wedding picture slideshow.

And hopefully can do more photoshoot with other themes and styles in my head. XD

But it's just that Yabuki doesn't have time to go back and forth to Kuching...and...the time is running out! Our receptions will be on next weekend!

So now...onto the things that need to be done.

1. Birdcage veil

• Supposed to buy on ebay but my debit card died.
• Then changed mind and wanted to rent from the Manja. But then, he ran off/FFK a day before my actual day.
• Panic.
• Contacted the seller on ebay, but she insisted saying that USPS does not guarantee a fast delivery to Malaysia even though if i pay $42 for it. Agree...USPS sucks anyway. Most of my things didn't show up last time.
• Have to hunt for any *good* netting available in Kuching. GARRRR!!!
• Remembered that in CINDY, they sell this vintage hat with millinery netting. Went there this noon, but it's fucking RM70! And very dusty with glue residue everywhere! Last time it was only RM30!!! The staff helped to ask the boss, and the boss only can sell it for RM60 the lowest. Crap... i just wanted the netting!

Dilemma: Should i buy it or not?

2. Arabian headdress and face veil

• Wanted the headdress to look like Gypsies veil; saw a few time Siti Nurhaliza wearing it. LOL. But how to make one? i tried to put selendang and cover half of my head and it slipped off...T_T
• For the face veil, i bought Diamante strands and hopefully it will be something nice. ;_; Most of the people use chiffon to cover their face so i want something more different. Boleh kah? :P

Dilemma: Need help in advice!

3. Arabian headgear for men

• This part really make me pening! Most of the people will think that Arabian headgear is usually macam Pak Arab Saudi. But since Yabuki descended from Hadratul-maut, the headgear is sort of look like serban yang sheikh-sheikh slalu guna. Argh! Entahlah! Totally no clue! Dulu ingatkan just want to use Tarbus je...tapi nampak macam 3 abdul! Hahaha! Betol lah ya...Abdul Aziz, Abdul Rahman, Abdul Rahim...eh tambah bapak mertua ku! Jadi 4 Abdul! Abdul Haddy! XD

Dilemma: Need help in advice!

4. Bridal Bouquet

• Haha! Ada lagik masalah tok. Due to super busy days, sik sempat to order earlier. Adoi... another thing, i don't know whether they can get me any Calla lilies in deep red or burgundy colour! Hmmm...
  
• Besides from Orchid garden shop, where else can i get cheap price for fresh flowers?
• Should i just ask the shop to make the bouquet for me or i just buy the flowers and arrange the bouquet myself? It's easy (i think) but do i have time to do so? D: But if let say just leave it to the shop, seriously i'm in a tight budget.

5. Outfit for her

• Both of my outfits dah siap...i really like my abaya kaftan! But...my outer dress...is...umm...don't know...it's a bit different from what i asked...i asked for black pearls and i did show to the designer that the black pearls supposed to be greyish colour. Not the really black colour. Lagi cantik if ada burgundy colour kat atas baju tu. The price is also beyond my asked price. Aku sik tauk nak ngorek duit siney...SERIOUS! Rasa nyesal pun ada...
• The belt...pun terlampau kecik. Aku terpaksa polah baru, or buy additional cloth for the bow. And belt burgundy pun lom carik...should i just use ribbon or buy cloth and tailor it? Ribbon nang senang, but nampak cam madot jak. Or...sik boh makey burgundy ribbon...just carik brooch yang ada batu kaler burgundy. MUN ADA lah. Siney mok carik??
• My outer dress is...menggelebeh...The cutting tiba-tiba jadi besar! Ka aku dah kurus? Haha! My inner dress pun bahagian boobs ya besar after the designer bukak the seams inside to make it one inch bigger. Bahagian perut ok lah, cuz at least i can sit comfortably. It's just the chest part...very loose. Should i alter it back?

6. Outfit for him

• Wo...susahnya nak carik baju nya tok...
• Tailor made a black tux shirt at Krabi...however...they did not know how to make one. It turns out miserably weird...and too simple. The collar is uhhh...so not cute.
• No... i can't fork out money to tailor made another one. And no time.
• The bridal shop only have M sized shirt and it is quite large on Yabuki. And no black colour.
• The necktie! The bridal shop doesn't have any descent burgundy colour...The one that we rent was so...crooked. =_=
• His Arabian outer bisht is currently in process...i think. But i made a mistake by choosing Satin for the material. OH NO! Semua duit punya pasal. Sebab mok murah tek nak? But when i think back...Satin material easily wrinkled and look costumey! AARRGGHHH!!
• Arabian...pakey kasut apa? LOL.

7. Bunga telur

• Tengah ikat reben with Zati... huhuhu~
• Rebus telur on 26th & attach them to the bunga telur sekali.
• Bring them to the hotel and arrange on the pahar.
• In-charge by Zati.

8. Wedding favours

• Bought benang kait as a cheaper alternative to ribbon. Ribbons in Kuching are expensive. =_= Imagine, a 45 cents ribbon in KL to be compared with the same ribbon in Kuching but with RM4.90 price. Gila...
• Mom said "sik kacak...nampak murah." i replied, "iboh pandey komplen jak. dah nya sekda duit, polah cara sekda duit.". *bridezilla mode ON* D:
• Aku rasa ok jak rupa nya diberik benang kait ya...orang puteh pun makey kedak tok juak bah.

Rasanya tok jak benda yg aku dpt pikir buat masa tok. Will update on this on the next post. :)

Wish me luck!

Eid Mubarak!

Wishing you Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Adha to everyone~! :D

i'm spending my raya without my beloved hubbie...*sobs*